Saturday, January 24, 2015

Decisions made, guided you to where you are today

Every day we go through life hoping that (1) tomorrow gets better or (2) today never ends. But we never wish for the same thing every day, month, or year; because we never know where life would take us. One time or another we wonder why is this happening to me (good or bad)? We wonder how this fairy tale or disaster chose us, but some choose to embrace what is happening while other choose to dwell on it. That is what makes us different. Others learn to let go of regret and grudges while other choose to beat their self up for the choices they have made. It is hard to understand how and why people make decisions for themselves and many times we will never know. But we must also keep in mind that we can’t just judge someone for their decisions because their past made them who they are today. Embrace who you are and who surrounds you because everyone you meet (no matter if they come and go or stay) contributed to who you are today. 

1 comment:

  1. You Speak the Truth, and to My Heart with this idea of yours.
    One could only understand but so much regarding their own Nature & Actions.
    No matter how much structure Any given person may attempt to maintain in their own existence, there are inevitably going to be an infinitesimal number of errors in that structure. [Oversights, Variables, Miscalculations, Predictability]

    With out Chaos {Some degree of Variability} there would be no perceived need for a concept of Order {Structure}

    Chaos Vs. Order

    Unpredictable Events are the very things that make us who we are. Our reactions to such events are flooded with compulsions to understand either the cause or the meaning.

    Albeit, One's own think machine is STUCK in a responsive feedback-loop Tied to brain that lives within the gut.

    The two have the ability to exist side by side not because they are in opposition to one another, but rather because the bring one another Balance.


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